I totally agree Petrichora. I love when my partner has a nice solid dance form- basically when they can lead. I know when learning that the confidence is not there on form, but at least don't be a limp noodle so I have to guess what you want me to do. Bleh.

Was that a signal for a left hand pass or a right hand pass? You want me to just run into you? I'm confused.

It is the worst in tango and lindy to have a limp partner. But when you have a strong (skilled) partner, it is seriously awesome and you can't help but look good while dancing.