Originally Posted by
Schizophrenic
That is one of my biggest pet peeves. I had a friend (key word HAD) who claimed to be my bestie... but on an almost daily basis would say something that would make me feel bad about myself, to the point that it almost seemed deliberate. I wish I had someone to tell me this when it was going on, but the advice I give you is don't take it to heart... sometimes people feel the need to secretly hate on others to bring them down a peg, or make themselves feel better about their own life.
Also, I wouldn't peg you for an "ice queen". If everyone was judged on their first romantic relationship... romance would look very bleak. Not everyone has the best experiences off the bat! I can certainly say I didn't ><;